…accept, surrender, transcend…

When I created this personal motto many years ago, I believed it was the key to truly transformative Dominant-submissive play.  My belief still holds true today.  Acceptance of who you intrinsically are behind all the walls and under the layers brings you an inner clarity and stillness.  In this stillness, surrendering to the power of the Dominant before you unlocks your inner spirit and releases you from the burdens that you carry every day.  It is only through absolute surrender that you can transcend this plane and soar high with your Dominant.  You may be naturally submissive, but it still takes training to master the Art of Submission. I will use my knowledge, experience, and passion to guide you in your personal journey of artful submission.   It’s hard work, but the rewards are well worth it.

I understand how difficult it is for you to submit, to transfer your authority to me, to surrender and yield to my will and desires.  But I also know how badly you need to do it.  That is why I treasure your submission and relish in it as a valuable gift to me.  For me, BDSM is about the symbiotic connection of our two unique energies, and the heat and fire of the new energy that forms during our time together.  You are the lock; I am the key; Together we open up and unleash the bare truth between us without judgment or shame.  It doesn’t matter to me how far we travel together, so much as you giving and pushing yourself just a little harder every time for me.  That’s what feeds me and pleases me, and that’s what will get you invited back to my playspace again to continue our journey together.